Hello. I’m Mytrae (My-thray-YEE) Meliana, and I teach and mentor women to live, love, and lead with their heart and Soul on fire.

I am able to guide you on the Awakened Women’s Way because it’s one I’ve personally travelled on for many years.

Professionally, I am a holistic psychotherapist, transformational coach, spiritual teacher, and channel in San Francisco.

Personally, my life, perspectives, and world were transformed by a series of events and encounters that bring me to you today.

I’ve been there — in darkness and light — so I can guide you on your journey. I hold space for your own ongoing healing and awakening as you free yourself from patriarchal conditioning and trauma, discover and stand in your embodied truth, power, and intuition, commune with the Divine Feminine within and without, and create your own unique brand of awakened feminine leadership.

I live, breathe, and play with Spirit but I’m just as comfortable in my body and emotions when I dance, hike in the beautiful Bay Area, laugh with my friends, and discover the beauty of people and our world.

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I am an energized whole person, skilled, gifted, and called to teach women who want to create change, shed patriarchy, heal trauma, and uplift and lead their corner of the world to a new day as Awakened Feminine Leaders.

My Story

“I am more than this. There has to be more to life. I’m here to do so much more.” These were thoughts I constantly struggled with when I felt trapped and stifled in a 15-year marriage and a soul-sucking job.

Yet I felt bound to stay married because of my cultural beliefs — I believed Indian women could marry only once, and that it was for life.

I didn’t believe I had a right to my own happiness, my own choices, or that I had gifts of any value to share with others.

For years, I privately questioned my marriage, my family’s and culture’s messages about who I could be a woman and what was possible for me in life. Only when I was 40, when I read about emotional abuse, did I reach out to a South Asian agency to ask if it applied to Indian women, too. When the counselor confirmed my marriage was emotionally abusive and assured me I had the same rights as American women, it dawned on me that I could choose myself. I began dreaming of a life of my own, beyond cultural and family messages, and for work that would feed my heart and soul.

Synchronistically, a Divine Feminine presence — Kali — showed up. She was Dark, Grounded, Powerful, and Maternal. Her unshakable, fierce presence, strength, and love gave me the courage I needed to break with my marriage, family, and culture.

I became a holistic psychotherapist and began my healing journey to heal from trauma, oppression, persecution, and patriarchal programming. I sought out many healing modalities and began to find my true self and reclaim my truth, power, and body.

Along the way, I got Lyme Disease and sought out holistic treatments. When I visited John of God, a spiritual healer in Brazil, I miraculously healed not only from Lyme Disease (Link to Lyme Coaching page) but emotional trauma as well. I had a spiritual awakening and my intuitive gifts flowered. The Spirits who work through John of God showed me my soul purpose and began teaching me many things, especially how Love heals all.

As I awakened to loving and honoring myself, correcting power dynamics in my relationships, worth, truth, power, and forgiveness, I learned and experienced how healing from physical disease is directly related to emotional, mental, and spiritual issues. My miraculous healing opened me to a completely new paradigm of energy, vibrational, and spiritual healing, and how much more is possible for us all.

I set out to learn how I could bring such magic and miracles into my work with clients. I traveled several times to Brazil, and led groups there for many years. I began a conscious, committed partnership with Spirit to learn how to connect and be mentored by my spirit guides who include Mother Mary. They have led me to claim my Divine Feminine Self, align with my soul’s purpose to teach and lead awakening women, and serve as a channel for the Divine Feminine.

My journey means you, too, can:

  • Consciously challenge and overcome patriarchal, family, social and cultural messages
  • Find holistic ways to heal your trauma
  • Discover and inform the underlying emotional and spiritual causes of your illness or disease
  • Find your soul’s purpose
  • Flower your intuition
  • Partner with Spirit and the Divine Feminine
  • Experience magic and miracles in your everyday life
  • Harness your heart and spirituality to add to your existing intelligences and skills
  • Embody and ground your heart, body, emotions, intuition and spirituality into your leadership


Talks & Workshops

Mytrae is an inspiring speaker, storyteller, and transformational workshop leader.

She speaks about women’s empowerment, the Divine Feminine, spiritual healing, and sound healing.

She leads transformational and spiritual workshops for women.

Contact her to speak and/ or lead a workshop for your group, community, or organization.